A WORD FROM Dr Veronica…
It is tempting to seek out the news when I hear a big story. I want to know information about that event. Over the years, however, I have learned that news sources never know anything right away. Perpetrators are alleged, details are unknown. Obviously, it takes time for information to unfold. There’s just something in me that wants my questions resolved right then.
It’s also tempting to want to resolve relational conflicts in the moment they happen. We usually think we have sufficient information, and we want our questions or complaints resolved right then. In reality, our information is at best incomplete, and can also be just plain inaccurate. When we go all out in conflicts with our loved-ones (because who else do we fight with more fiercely?), it’s like turning on the news and expecting to know all the details in the moment of the big event.It’s unrealistic.
In relational conflict (and the news for that matter), it’s important to allow time for information to unfold. Giving the situation time, we can avoid some pretty destructive fights. It’s so easy to get outraged when we think we know the whole story, when we actually don’t. One of my favorite client reactions when I’m doing marriage counseling is, “What?!?!?” Surprise indicates that new information is coming down the pike! Once we have more information, our emotions can disperse into more balanced categories instead of fueling one big ball of rage. It’s far more productive, and far more likely to keep your loved one close.
We are here for you – call today to get on the schedule!
Ready to get started with counseling? We have mapped out the steps for you!
Step 1: Call the front desk at 720-935-2663 ext.2. We are live on the phones from 10am to 3pm Monday through Friday with the exception of holidays. If you receive our voicemail, please leave a message! We will return all calls by the end of the following business day. You can also use our contact us page/schedule an appointment button on the website to send us an inquiry.
Step 2: The admin team is here to help you get scheduled with the right therapist! We are happy to answer any and all questions. We can also schedule a 15 minute phone consultation if it is important to you to speak with your chosen therapist before your first session. Once you find a match that fits your therapy focus, budget, and schedule, the next step is making the appointment official.
- You’ll find a day and time that works for you and your therapist’s schedule
- You’ll be asked for a credit card to charge a $50 non-refundable deposit
Step 3: You will receive a minimum of 3 separate emails after you officially schedule:
- A receipt for the $50 deposit
- An invitation to join the client portal (email with a big blue button in the middle)
- A confirmation email detailing the who/what/when/where/how of your upcoming intake appointment
Step 4: Attend your first session.
- Your therapist will ask questions to get the context of what you are navigating.
- During the first or second session, your therapist will help you set some goals for therapy so you can know if you are getting what you want.
- After your initial appointment, all subsequent sessions will be scheduled by you and your therapist. All billing updates and changes will also be handled by your therapist.
- Remember that the admin team is happy to assist when and where we can during our regular administrative hours (same as phone hours mentioned above).
We are so glad to partner with you during your therapy journey!
